I am a lesbian feminist artist and writer, and definitely a hedonist who laughs a lot. My interests include gender politics, especially butch/femme identities. I love good conversation, travelling, reading, entertaining, flirting, nights out, searching for constellations in the night sky. Some of my favourite smells: Camping, sea swimming, wilderness, sweetpeas, the smell of my lover's skin, her breath on my cheek, red African earth after a thunderstorm, fresh coffee, tomatoes on the vine.
I am a bit soft butch/androgynous on the streets, and more femme between the sheets. Also a bit of a gender chameleon: I butch up in the company of femmes and femme up around butches, especially diesel dykes ;). I enjoy hanging out with other lesbians, as I am totally woman-identified. Core values: Honesty and integrity, followed by kindness are key to any relationships I have - lovers and friends. I love meeting new people, but I am intensely loyal to those I love.
I am a bit of an adventure and experience-junkie. I am obsessed with female hyenas: long story! I make a lot of very political art and I have a studio at an Arts Centre in Cambridgeshire. I love adrenaline rushes and excitement. I have degrees in Literature and Fine Art. I have worked variously as teacher, translator, workshop facilitator, examiner, artist. I am not afraid to swim against at the tide - bohemian and unconventional. I have 2 children, 21 and 18, whose father is gay. I am recently out of a 5 year relationship and looking to meet other lesbians.
|Home Location||Cambridge, England, United Kingdom|
|Height||5.6" (168 cm)|
Artistic Compulsive Earthy Flamboyant Flexible Flirtatious High Energy Intellectual Loving Open Minded Outgoing Romantic Self Confident Sensitive Sophisticated Spontaneous Talkative Unconventional
Sporty, butch dyke who is confident and enjoys sex. She is self-aware; flirtatious, open to new ideas and keen to broaden horizons. Ideally, she is kind, empathic and caring. As a bonus, someone who is real, and doesn't hate herself. She is straightforward and practical. Also reliable and trustworthy. But there must be chemistry ;).
I am recently out of a 5 year relationship with a woman whose internalised homophobia made life tricky so being out and comfortable in one's skin is preferable, and the obsessive need to curate one's personality online most undesirable. Intellectual masturbation is not attractive, nor is meanness of spirit. I want to be with someone who makes me weak at the knees, both sexually and intellectually.
That sounds like a bastard of a checklist, so I would definitely
settle for honest, intelligent, sensual and kind!
Friendship Relationship Chat Travel Partner Casual Other Activities
|Aged between||32 - 58|
|Has Children||Yes, living at home|
Arts and Crafts Camping Cooking Dining Out Dramatics Drawing Entertaining Gardening Motorbikes Movies Music Painting Photography Reading Surfing the Web Television Travelling Walking Writing
African Blues Classical Disco Jazz Rock Soul
Gym Hockey Pilates Swimming Walking Weight Training
Brighton, Brighton and Hove
Brighton, Brighton and Hove
Ponders End, Greater London